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How did this crazy ride start? :-/

It was a late summer evening. I was hanging out with my best friend, code name "S", in his hobby store (a.k.a. comic shop. yes, yes, I'm one of -those- nerds.) We were most likely looking up some sort of articular about some new game update, or some silly funny YouTube video, when She walked in.

Now, let's back up a moment...
-Months before that-
I had been involved in a bad relationship sense i was 18, with a girl that was my first. She was my first corruption. Be her i never done a thing with another women, or smoke anything, or drink. I was -the- total straight edge. She saw me as a conquest, and she did. It was a bad relationship because i was blind to the abuse and to much of a nice guy to do anything about it and she knew it. I just could not say no to anything she needed or wanted. People could not believe i put up with her for 8 years, off and on again. I was her safety net in life, any time she was low she would come back and use me all over again, then was off to the next guy. "How can you stand her cheating on you?" people would ask. You know, that never really bugged me, and i always thought that was odd. I was mostly mad at myself due to the fact I was just not cool enough for her party life, i was her quite closet good boy. But one day, she messed up bad, got too drunk and high one night, and finally ended up in huge trouble with the police. Her 'other' boy friend (she always denied it but everyone knew.) ended up calling me to come down to escort her home. She was just to drunk to know when to leave it be, desperately wanted nothing to do with me in a public seance and took a sing at me. It barely missed but sent my glasses flying. (they were undamaged landing in the grass.) Unfortunately, it was right in front of the cops. She was arrested for assault, i didn't press the charges, but it was done in front of them, so it was not my choice and a restrain court order soon fallowed. That was the end of it, she could be around me when she need me, and could never face me much again. Months passed and I never really looked at other girls, I've never really asked a girl out, I really nave no idea what to do or how to act around girl in a romantic sense. I've always said "I make a better friend, then a boy friend." So it was a long time before I even was really 'attracted' to anyone. Then it happened...
S and I had been to a convention and both got into a competition over (of all things) a girl. It produced a real wedge, and it became ugly. We both acted pretty much like retards to be truthful over the whole thing. He won her over, as i had no clue what to do. I was basically unarmed in the fight over her attention. It became so poisoned in the household that she did feel right coming over to see him. She soon turned crazy and moved to Africa any-who, it is still a huge wound for S. Yea, we even did the whole "them him I said ..." thing at home and work. (We worked at the same retail store at the time.) :) It's funny now looking back at it, it was sitcom stupid. And after nearly a half year things seemed to finally blow over and we had just started to really re-connect and be able to hang out for long periods of time. It was that week when she walked in that we really started to laugh about it and set for the "dibs" rule. So there would be no more in-fighting over a girl again, the first person to call dibs would have first chance, and the other is honor bound to respect that. (see, told you we we're -those- nerds.) We both laughed about it, and calmed "dibs" over passing hot girl and celebs on TV and such. It was never really use seriously.

-back to... then-
So, she walks in, a new costumer to the store, and a girl to boot. Not just any girl but the hottest person I've seen in... ever. I did a double take and knew immediately I was for once attracted enough to a person that I would do anything for their attention, and not for once wright her off as too hot for me and why would she want a guy like me.
Me: (quietly) "Dibs."
S: "wha..? what are yo- oh! Damn it..."
Me: "Hello, welcome to -store name redacted-!"
S: "Let me know if there is anything I can help you with."
Me: *dirty side look*
S: -to me- "Hey, -I- work here, you don't. Go say something to..."
It was at the moment, code name J walked into the door, the boy friend.
S: "Sorry man. Looks like he already has dibs."
Now, normally at this point, this matter would be put to rest. I've never asked a girl out, and would not think that most girls would want to in the first place. So i wasn't even able to think that I would be able to steal a girl away from someone else. And so, at that time I left it at that.
Me: "Hi. :)"
She: "Hi! do you run any D&D games here?"
But that was the moment it did start.
polyshyguy: (Default)
Hi there.
I've never been good at these blogs, mostly because I never really talk about myself or matters I'm involved in. I'm starting the blog because i don't really have an outlet to talk about the stuff I would like to talk about. I almost live a double life, at one time it was like a triple life.

Humm... where to start... Let's start with the basic stuff.
Sex: Male
Age: 28
Height: 6'0"
Weight: 200 lbs.
Hair: Dark Brown
Eyes: Brown
Build: Average? (this was what I was talking about before. I think I have a gut, it's nothing big, but again, I don't like tight fitting shirts.)

So, there's a start.
I'm in a polygamy relationship. done.
Did you click away yet? No? Did you go "a what now?"?

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Polygamy (from πολύς γάμος polys gamos, translated literally in Late Greek as "often married") is a marriage which includes more than two partners. When a man is married to more than one wife at a time, the relationship is called polygyny, and there is no marriage bond between the wives; and when a woman is married to more than one husband at a time, it is called polyandry, and there is no marriage bond between the husbands.

So there's a bit of info for you. Did you click away now? No?
Did you say something to the fact of "Wow."
Wow... That's what I first said too.


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February 2012



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